“You Believe the Wrong News”: The Psychology Behind the Shutdown

Yesterday on Hive, I got one of those comments that’s half static, half attitude. The message itself was so garbled I couldn’t even tell what point she was trying to make. Then came the follow-up: I “believe the wrong news outlets.”

Ah yes. The classic. Insult first, then pretend you’re the reasonable one while you imply the other person is brainwashed. It’s a move, and it’s everywhere right now.

I didn’t clap back. I just wished her a nice day and kept it moving. But it stuck in my brain, because it made me wonder: how do people get to a place where they can dismiss credible reporting, video, and eyewitness accounts as “propaganda”… and feel righteous about it?

A recent example is the public outcry around two fatal encounters in Minneapolis involving federal immigration agents, including the deaths of U.S. citizens Renée Nicole Good and Alex Pretti. Major outlets have reported on the cases, and lawmakers have been seeking records and answers, which tells you this isn’t just “internet drama.”

So what’s actually happening in the human brain when someone’s default response is, “Fake news”?

When politics becomes identity, facts feel like an attack

At first, politics is preferences: taxes, healthcare, immigration, whatever. For some people it shifts into identity: This is my team. These are my people. This is who I am.

Once that happens, criticism of the leader or movement doesn’t land as information. It lands as a threat.

Not “Maybe I should reconsider this.” More like:

  • “You’re calling me stupid.”

  • “You’re calling my people evil.”

  • “You’re trying to take away my place in the world.”

If you’ve ever watched someone defend a messy relationship way past the point of reason, you already understand the vibe. It’s not about logic. It’s about protecting the self.

Motivated reasoning: your brain turns into a defense lawyer

Motivated reasoning is basically when the brain stops being a judge and becomes a lawyer hired by your feelings.

Same person, same IQ, same ability to analyze… but the standards change depending on whether the information helps or hurts “their side.”

  • If a story makes their team look good, it’s “obvious” and “common sense.”

  • If a story makes their team look bad, suddenly it’s “biased,” “out of context,” “doctored,” “the media always lies.”

So when someone says “you believe the wrong outlets,” sometimes it’s not a real critique. It’s a reflex that lets them avoid grappling with anything uncomfortable.

Cognitive dissonance: the brain hates the sentence “I might be wrong”

Cognitive dissonance is the mental itch you get when two beliefs can’t comfortably coexist, like:

  • “My side is the good guys.”

  • “My side is connected to something horrifying.”

That clash hurts. So the mind reaches for the quickest painkiller, not the most accurate conclusion.

That’s how people end up with lines like:

  • “That didn’t happen.”

  • “It happened, but it’s exaggerated.”

  • “It happened, but they deserved it.”

  • “It happened, but it was staged.”

“Propaganda” is the ultimate shortcut because it turns a complicated reality into a simple dismissal. One word, no discomfort.

Group belonging is stronger than “being right”

Here’s the part people underestimate: humans are wired for belonging. And belonging is not a cute personality trait. It’s survival software.

If someone’s social world is tied to a political identity, changing their mind can mean real consequences: conflict, shame, isolation, losing their online tribe, losing their offline peace.

So even if doubt flickers privately, it gets crushed publicly. Doubling down becomes the safer option.

This is why the “wrong news” accusation is so popular. It’s not just an argument. It’s a loyalty signal. A little flag they wave to show they’re still part of the group.

“The media lies” becomes a filter, not a thought

Healthy skepticism says: “Let’s verify this.”

But there’s another mode where “mainstream sources are lying” becomes the default setting. Once that filter is installed, any negative information about the leader is automatically tagged as hostile content.

At that point, evidence is not evaluated. It’s rejected.

And the person rejecting it can genuinely feel like they’re being smart and protected. That’s the twist. The rejection itself feels like wisdom.

Conspiracy thinking can feel comforting

A messy world is hard to tolerate. Randomness is scary. Injustice is scary. The idea that powerful systems can hurt people and there’s no clean explanation is… a lot.

Conspiracy stories offer emotional relief:

  • Someone is in control.

  • Nothing is random.

  • You are one of the few who “sees the truth.”

That last one is addictive. Confusion turns into superiority, and suddenly doubt feels like weakness.

The goal isn’t to “win,” it’s to stay human

I’m not writing this to start a war, and I’m not interested in dunking on strangers for sport. I’m writing it because I want people to understand what they’re up against when a conversation collapses into “wrong outlets” and “propaganda.”

Because here’s the truth: you can’t fact-check someone out of a position they’re using to protect their identity and social safety.

You can sometimes lower the temperature by shifting the conversation from teams to values:

  • “Do you believe citizens should be safe from excessive force and have accountability when things go wrong?”

  • “What evidence would you consider trustworthy, and why?”

  • “Can we talk without insults, or are we done here?”

That last one matters. Boundaries are not mean. They’re adult.

Wrap-up: Carney, Havel, and the little sign in the window

This is why Prime Minister Mark Carney’s Davos speech hit me so hard. In his address at the World Economic Forum on January 20, 2026, he referenced Václav Havel’s essay The Power of the Powerless and the “greengrocer” story: a shopkeeper displays a political slogan he doesn’t believe because it’s safer to comply than to stand out. Havel’s point was that systems survive when ordinary people keep performing the lie. (You can read the full speech here.)

That’s what a lot of “you believe the wrong news” comments are, if we’re being honest. It’s a sign in the window. It’s a performance of belonging.

And if we want a better world, we need more people willing to take the sign down, ask hard questions, and “live in truth,” even when it’s uncomfortable.

Not perfectly. Just honestly.

Until next time friends…

The Red Hat That Freaked Out the Nazis

Hi friends. It’s hard to know where to start lately.

I’m Canadian, and I’ve been watching my neighbours to the south go through things that are, honestly, horrifying. The kind of stuff that makes your stomach drop because you can feel how fast fear gets normalised. I can’t pretend I fully understand what it’s like to live inside that every day, but I do know this: when people’s rights and safety start getting messed with, silence helps the wrong side.

My dad was a WWII vet. He watched the early signs of what was coming, and he signed up anyway. Not because he loved war, but because he didn’t want his future kids living in a world run by cruelty, propaganda, and people addicted to power. So when I see history rhyming, I don’t want to look away.

And as a fiberartist, I keep coming back to this truth: our crafts have never been “just crafts.” They’ve always carried meaning. Sometimes comfort. Sometimes identity. Sometimes straight-up defiance.

Which brings me to one of my favourite stories of quiet resistance.

Imagine this: a knitted hat as a protest

During World War II, when Norway was occupied by Nazi Germany (starting April 1940), ordinary people needed ways to show unity without getting hauled in for it. Big gestures were dangerous. So they did what humans always do under pressure: they got smart and subtle.

In Norway, one of those subtle symbols was a red, knitted, pointed winter cap with a tassel. It’s often called a nisselue (or rød topplue).

The guardian of the farm: the Nisse

This hat wasn’t invented as a protest symbol. It was already part of Norwegian culture.

The red cap is tied to the Nisse, a gnome-like guardian figure in Norwegian folklore, connected to farms, home, and Christmas traditions. Nisser are basically always pictured in that bright red cap.

So when the occupation tried to crush Norwegian identity, the hat became more than a cute folklore thing. It became a flag you could wear on your head.

A silent, colourful rebellion

People started wearing the red nisselue as a way of saying: we’re still us.

It wasn’t loud. It wasn’t violent. But it was visible. Teens wore them in the streets. Artists put red-hatted nisser on Christmas cards alongside very Norwegian imagery and phrases like “God norsk jul” (“Good Norwegian Christmas”). Those cards were not subtle, and authorities treated them like open defiance.

There was also a broader crackdown on national symbols around that time. In late 1941, there were bans around using the Norwegian flag and its colours in ways authorities considered “demonstrations” against the occupation.

So yes. A red knitted hat could absolutely be seen as a political act.

The 1942 ban: “Stop wearing the red hats”

The red hats spread so widely that police in Trondheim basically said, “Okay, that’s enough.”

A notice dated February 23, 1942 warned that use of red toppluer had increased so much it was now considered a demonstration. The ban would apply starting Thursday, February 26, 1942. Hats could be confiscated, people could be punished, and for children under 14, the parents could be held responsible.

Let that sink in for a second.

Not a weapon. Not a poster. Not a protest march.

A red knitted hat.

That’s how fragile authoritarian control is. It panics over symbols, because symbols spread faster than orders.

And of course, the knitters pivoted

Norwegians didn’t stop resisting. They adjusted.

After the crackdown, you start seeing Christmas cards with nisser wearing hats in yellow, blue, or green instead of red, or cards that play games with the symbolism.

And alongside the hats, people used other quiet symbols too, like the paperclip worn on lapels, meaning “we are bound together.”

The pattern is always the same: when people are threatened, they find each other. When speech is controlled, they communicate sideways.

Knitting the resistance today

There’s something deeply grounding about touching this history with your own hands. Casting on stitches that someone else once knit under threat is not just “making a hat.” It’s choosing to remember. It’s choosing to pay attention.

If you want to add this to your project list, here a great Ravelry option:

Melt the ICE Hat  by YarnCultMN: a modern pattern inspired by the same red-hat symbolism, published January 2026, written for DK and worsted weight, with 200–250 yards listed.

(All proceeds from the sale of this pattern go to the immigrant aid agencies who will distribute the funds to those impacted by the actions of ICE)

Closing: what do we do with any of this?

I don’t have a neat little bow to tie on this, because real life isn’t neat.

But I do believe this: as citizens of the world, we don’t get to outsource our morals. The best we can do is stay awake, stay curious, stay connected, and use whatever we have to push back against dehumanization, everywhere. Sometimes that looks like donating, calling reps, showing up for a neighbour, supporting journalists, or protecting someone who’s being targeted. Sometimes it looks like building community so people aren’t isolated. And sometimes, yes, it looks like making something with your hands that says: you are not alone.

Because history doesn’t just remember the loud heroes. It remembers the millions of ordinary people who refused to let fear become normal.

Until next time friends…

Ender-3 V3 KE Review for Beginners – 3D Printing on Linux Mint as a Fiber Artist

We finally did it. We jumped on the 3D printing wagon, and honestly, it is way better than I expected.

My hubs and I spent far too many nights down the “best beginner 3D printer” rabbit hole before we landed on the Creality Ender-3 V3 KE 3D printer. It is marketed as friendly for beginners and hobbyists, and after a week with it, I would say they are not wrong.

Is this a super technical Ender-3 V3 KE review? Nope. This is the “real human learning 3D printing for beginners while chasing dopamine” version.

Why I Wanted a 3D Printer as a Fiber Artist

I have been a fiber artist for decades, happily collecting techniques like other people collect mugs. Knitting, crochet, mixed media, photography, art… if it lets my hands stay busy, I am in.

The problem: I take my projects everywhere.

That means I have spent a ridiculous amount of time (and more money than I want to admit) trying to figure out the best way to:

  • Carry my yarn and projects
  • Keep tools from stabbing through bags
  • Not lose tiny scissors, needles, and stitch markers in the bottom of the void

So when I started looking into 3D printing for crafters and fiber artists, my brain went:

“Oh. This is it. This is NerdVanna.”

I wanted a printer that would let me create:

  • Tool organizers
  • Yarn and project containers
  • Photography gadgets
  • Fun gifts for friends and family

Enter the Ender-3 V3 KE.

3D Printing on Linux Mint: Installing Creality Print

I am running **Linux Mint**, so one of my first questions was:
*Can I actually get the slicer software to work without a three day meltdown?*

Good news: yes.

I downloaded Creality Print and got it running on Linux Mint without drama.

Quick note for Linux Mint users:
Install the Flatpak version using `sudo` so everything has the permissions it needs.

Once it was installed and I opened Creality Print for the first time, I felt like I had just landed in a strange new world.
Buttons everywhere. Grid. Ghost printer. Settings. More settings.

And you know what? It was fantastic.

This is where the “3D printing for beginners” journey really starts: awkward clicking, random hovering, and the eternal question:

“If I press this, will it explode or just slice something?”

Discovering Free 3D Print Files: Thingiverse Adventure

One of the best parts about getting into 3D printing as a beginner is realizing there are already entire libraries of free projects out there.

My first stop: Thingiverse.

For a total newbie, it felt like a toy store. I started with photography tools and found:

Very cool. Very useful. But this is not what broke my brain.

That happened when I typed one little word into the search bar:

“yarn”

3D Printing for Fiber Artists: The Yarn Ball Container

Front and center was this glorious thing:

Surprise Yarn Ball Container

A container that looks like a ball of yarn.
Roughly the size of a 100 g skein.
Designed to hold tools.

For someone who lives inside a yarn-filled brain, this was a direct hit.

I needed this print in my hands yesterday.

Slicing, Printing and Failing Forward

So I downloaded the files, pulled them into Creality Print, stared at the screen and thought:

“Hmmm… now what?”

My husband had already printed the iconic little Benchy boat, which in 3D printing world is the starter boss, so he was officially “slightly more experienced.”

Together we:

1. Chose the Ender-3 V3 KE as the printer profile
2. Let Creality Print do auto-supports
3. Sliced the model
4. Exported it to the printer
5. Hit print and hoped for the best

We printed the first half of the container. Twice.

And it was… not great.

  • Holes where there should never be holes
  • Walls too thin and flimsy
  • Not even close to “tossable in a project bag” quality

I was disappointed, but if there is one thing fiber arts has trained me for, it is stubborn persistence. If I can frog an entire sweater and start over, I can reprint a fake ball of yarn.

Finding a Better Remix: Screwed Together, Not Popping Open

While the second print was going, I did what any proper crafter does when something is not working: I opened another tab and kept going.

Digging deeper into Thingiverse, I found a remixed version of the yarn ball container where the two halves screw together.

Even better:

  • No random popping open
  • No tools rolling across the floor
  • Less chaos in my bag

I downloaded the remix, pulled it into Creality Print, and did a bit more research into:

  • Wall thickness
  • Infill percentage
  • Print speed

Then I held my breath, clicked **Print**, and walked away before I could start micromanaging the machine.

Victory: A Yarn Ball Tool Container That Actually Works

This time, it worked.

The new version printed beautifully:

  • The walls were thicker and solid
  • The container was basically watertight
  • The supports snapped off without too much fuss

End result:
I now have a yarn-ball-shaped container that:

  • Holds my hooks, needles, and tiny scissors
  • Screws securely closed
  • Fits perfectly in the pocket of my bag

My precious tools are now living inside a fake ball of wool, and I am unreasonably happy about it.

This is exactly the kind of thing that makes **3D printing for fiber artists** so powerful. It is not just toys and figurines. It is:

  • Custom organizers
  • Project-specific containers
  • Little quality-of-life upgrades for your making life

3D Printing for Beginners: What I Have Learned So Far

After just a week with the Ender-3 V3 KE and Creality Print on Linux Mint, here is my quick beginner take:

What I am loving

  • Beginner friendly setup: Once we got a feel for it, the Ender-3 V3 KE has been approachable, even as a first 3D printer.
  • Linux Mint friendly: Creality Print runs on my Linux system, which makes my inner nerd very happy.
  • Endless project ideas: Thingiverse and other repositories make it easy to start printing right away without designing everything from scratch.

What I am still figuring out

  • Dialing in the “perfect” print settings
  • Understanding when to tweak wall thickness, supports and infill
  • Not starting five new prints in a row just because I found a cute gadget

Christmas, Gifts and Future Chaos

Christmas is creeping closer, so I am not going to spoil what we are printing for friends and family. Let us just say:

  • The Ender-3 V3 KE is getting a workout
  • We are absolutely using 3D printing for gifts
  • My creative and nerdy sides are having a full-on party

3D printing has officially joined the list of tools in my creative studio, right next to the yarn, hooks, needles and paints.

If you are a crafter or fiber artist wondering whether 3D printing for beginners is worth the trouble, here is my answer after one week:

Yes. Especially if you are the kind of person who gets way too excited about storage solutions, custom tools and yarn-shaped containers.

Stay tuned. This is only the first layer.

Until next time friends…

When Life Hands You Lemons, Make Green Tea Lemonade With Mint.

Warning: Heavy Sarcasm Ahead (Especially at Microsoft’s Expense)
If you’re a hardcore Windows fan-girl, grab a helmet.

Have you read The Internet is Made of DemonsYeah… if that’s true, my computer is 100% possessed.

This beast didn’t even start life as a “normal” desktop. It was literally the guts of a lottery terminal. (I wish I was joking.) Windows 11 took one look at my hardware and said, “Absolutely not,” so I’ve been happily coasting along on Windows 10. But now that Win10’s support is on its last legs, I’ve been out here like some wannabe hacker, trying every shady workaround I can find to sneak past Microsoft’s hardware checks. Everyone online swears they “know a guy” who pulled it off. Spoiler: nothing works.

And maybe – just maybe – my pure rage opened a portal for the demons.

First, my audio started freezing during calls. Friends swore it was “just a driver.” Tried everything. Nada. Then my video joined the party. Next, random USB ports started flaking out like they were auditioning for a horror movie. Suddenly, I’m sitting here wondering if an upgrade to Windows 11 would fix it. (Why? Why would I even think that? Like Microsoft suddenly wants to save me?)

No, I’m not buying new hardware just to appease the MS gods.

You should know: this thing has 14 USB ports. Fourteen. Do I use them all? Absolutely not. But I went from two measly ports on my laptop to this glorious buffet of connectivity, and I’m not giving it up. It’s rocking 32 gigs of RAM and has always been a solid little workhorse… until, you know, the possession.

So, I pulled a bold move: I swapped the motherboard with another one just like it and went full-on Linux. Yep, I jumped ship. I’ve used Linux before, but I missed PaintShop Pro too much to stick with it. But now? I’m running Linux Mint with Cinnamon, and thanks to ChatGPT’s hand-holding, I even set up a virtual Windows machine so I can use PSP.

Linux has come a long way since the old Red Hat days (shout-out to anyone who remembers that chaos). It’s smooth, pretty, and – so far – I’m not looking back. Well, except for one thing: headsets.

Turns out, my fancy SteelSeries Arctis 5 USB headset and my bone-conduction Shokz OpenCom2 (both amazing on Windows) decided they hate Linux. After many, many hours of cursing at forums and trying every workaround, I finally learned:

“Both mics don’t work in Linux because their advanced USB audio drivers aren’t fully supported. They’ll show up as headphones, but the mic isn’t recognised.”

Translation: buy a new headset or get creative.

So yeah, I’m dropping cash – not for Microsoft’s ransom, but because my gear doesn’t vibe with Linux. Worth it. And honestly? If you’re still on Windows 10 and wondering what to do next, try Linux. It might surprise you.

Until next time friends…

 

Barbara G. Walker: The Woman Who Shaped My Knitting and Opened My Mind

For the longest time, Barbara G. Walker was simply the brilliant mind behind my sweater-knitting bible, Knitting from the Top Down—the book that changed everything for me when it came to seamless garment construction. If you’ve ever knit a sweater without the dreaded seams, you probably owe her a big thank you. I certainly do.

So imagine my surprise when I recently discovered that she wasn’t just the queen of top-down knitting—she was also the creator of THE tarot deck I had originally wanted. The one that had first caught my interest when I was diving into tarot, before I ended up with my current, bossy deck. Somehow, I had never put two and two together. Talk about a plot twist!

Barbara G. Walker: A Woman of Many Talents and Even More Books

Barbara G. Walker wasn’t just a knitting revolutionary—she was a prolific author who dedicated her life to educating, empowering, and enlightening us across multiple disciplines. She wrote an impressive number of books covering knitting, mythology, feminism, spirituality, and historical research. She didn’t just master these subjects—she taught them to us, freely sharing her knowledge with the world and leaving behind a wealth of resources that continue to inspire.

Her feminist and mythological works, including The Woman’s Encyclopedia of Myths and Secrets and The Woman’s Dictionary of Symbols and Sacred Objects, peeled back centuries of misinformation, exposing hidden histories and restoring the stories of women and goddesses long buried by patriarchal narratives. She wasn’t just a researcher; she was a truth-seeker, determined to give us back the knowledge that had been taken from us.

Her Barbara Walker Tarot deck, much like her knitting books, isn’t for the faint of heart. Just as she redefined sweater construction by encouraging knitters to think outside traditional techniques, she brought the same no-nonsense approach to tarot, infusing it with historical and mythological depth. It’s the kind of deck that doesn’t just suggest things—it tells you exactly what you need to hear, much like a particularly wise knitting instructor who won’t let you get away with sloppy tension.

Knitting, Mythology, and the Threads That Connect Us

Looking back, it makes perfect sense that one woman could master both fiber arts and esoteric wisdom. After all, fiberarts have always been tied to fate and storytelling. The ancient Greek Fates spun, measured, and cut the threads of life, and cultures around the world have used weaving and knotting as forms of magic and communication. Even today, when we knit, crochet, or weave, we are quite literally creating something out of nothing—an act that feels just a little bit like modern-day sorcery.

Barbara Walker didn’t just give us stitches—she gave us knowledge, empowerment, and a deeper appreciation for the histories woven into our crafts and beliefs. Whether through yarn or tarot, she understood the power of storytelling and the importance of passing knowledge down through the generations.

A New Perspective on an Old Hero

Discovering that one of my greatest knitting inspirations was also behind the tarot deck I had first wanted feels like a cosmic wink from the universe. But more than that, I now see her as an even greater force than I had realized—a woman who didn’t just create, but educated, liberated, and empowered others through her work.

So here’s to Barbara Walker—knitting innovator, historian, and all-around trailblazer. Whether you’re casting on a new sweater, casting a tarot spread, or casting off outdated ideas, her legacy is there, woven into the fabric of both fiberarts and deeper wisdom. In today’s political times, where misinformation spreads easily and hard-won rights are continuously challenged, we need voices like hers more than ever—voices that educate, empower, and remind us of the importance of knowledge and truth. And if there’s one thing she’s taught me, it’s this: knowledge is meant to be shared, stitches are meant to be passed down, and the truth is always worth unraveling.

Until next time friends…

When Politics Crash Knit Happens

Yesterday, near the end of Knit Happens Wednesday, just as I was wrapping up a lovely session of stitches and chatter, a conversation unfolded that rocked me to my core.

Out of nowhere, this intelligent, confident Latino woman timidly drops:

“I voted for Trump.”

Not in passing. Not as a footnote. But as a social experiment.

Her goal? To see how we’d react. Because apparently, she had recently lost a close friend over this and was feeling some kind of way about whether she’d still be accepted in spaces she cared about.

Now, the golden rule of Knit Happens is NO Politics, NO Religion. This is sacred yarn space, where the biggest debates should be over things like “Is it called a granny square if it’s a hexagon?” or “Can you ever really have too much yarn?”

But… we were a small group. The clock was ticking down. And curiosity got the better of me. So, I let it play out.

Internal Reaction: 💥SYSTEM OVERLOAD💥
I won’t lie. My brain short-circuited for a second. The neurons started sparking like an acrylic sweater in a dry winter.

The initial, deeply visceral reaction went something like this:

“WHY?”
“As a woman… WHY?”
“As a Latino woman… WHYYYY?!”

If my thoughts had a sound effect, it would have been a record scratch followed by the Windows error chime.

But I said nothing. I took a deep breath. Let the wave of emotion pass. And instead of unloading my knee-jerk thoughts, I sat with them.

And you know what? That was the best thing I could have done.

Because instead of a debate, a conversation happened. Not about politics, not about policies, but about acceptance—about what it means to have space where you’re not automatically judged for one decision, even a major one.

And really… who am I to decide whether her vote was right or wrong? I’m Canadian. My country prides itself on compassion, on being a safe harbor in a storm. And yet, this still bothered me.

Like… why, though? Why did this moment dig into my brain like a stray stitch in the middle of a lace chart?

Midnight Musings:
I woke up in the middle of the night still mulling it over.

Was it because of the ongoing chaos to the south that has spilled into my own country? Was it the seeming contradiction of voting for someone whose policies don’t seem aligned with her personal reality?

Or was it something even deeper—this weird assumption that kindness is weakness? That being open-hearted, welcoming, and trying to do the right thing somehow makes us vulnerable?

Is it weak to do the right thing, even when no one is watching?
Is it weak to be compassionate, even when others sling mud at you?
Is it weak to be a friend to the world?

Or—plot twist—is that actually our greatest strength?

Because the funny thing about kindness? People mistake it for passivity. They don’t see it coming when the time comes to stand firm and fight for what truly matters.

Final Thought:
So, what did I learn?

That my first reaction doesn’t have to be my final reaction. That listening—not agreeing, but just listening—can be powerful. That empathy is a tool, not a trap.

And that at the end of the day, knitgroup is knitgroup. A place to weave together people, not just yarn.

So I’ll keep being me—stubbornly kind, fiercely thoughtful, and always up for a good discussion… as long as it’s about knitting. 😉

Until next time Friends…